Monday, January 08, 2018

It has been a very long time since I posted anything to this blog but I decided that I would check in at least once more.  Life for Felix and me has become very much a series of obsessive routines, mostly revolving around hiking.  We generally try to hike between 7 and 14 miles every day the weather permits and that I have the time.  This generally means 5 or 6 days a week.  Wednesdays rarely work out due to my standing bridge game in the afternoons.

Felix is now 3-1/2 and is at least as big a celebrity here in Asheville as Abner was.  Everywhere we go people want to experience an encounter with him and as long as they don't smoke and are respectful, I generally let them.  He is very tolerant (up to a point) of the attention and generally will make it clear when he has had enough.

My parents are doing well but a little more than a year ago, sold their home of 69 years and moved to an apartment in Carmel, IN.  It was quite an adjustment but to all appearances they are content in their new lives.  They still miss certain aspects of life in Fort Wayne, but they are now living very close to my youngest sister, and a couple of their grandchildren and great grandchildren so I think the trade off has been worth it.

I have gotten into the habit of doing a few road trips every year.  The long summer in California was a good one but it turns out that 4-1/2 months away from home was really more than I want to experience so I am now doing 1-3 week trips in the car with Felix to see friends, my parents, and sites I have wanted to visit.

Last winter, and into spring, we visited Boston, New York, the Laurel Highlands in Western PA (to see Wright's Fallingwater House) and Carmel to see my parents.  We also did a trip to Melbourne Beach FL to visit old friends at a house I designed for them almost 30 years ago and a trip to the Outer Banks of NC with my old friend Jim Sundquist.

All these pictures came from those trips.

The heavy tourist season is on hiatus in Asheville for about 10 weeks so we are generally just enjoying the town and our normal lives while everything is accessible.  We will probably also head North again sometime in late winter or early spring, as well, I hope, as another trip to Florida to see Ann and Bowers.

If anyone is still reading this blog, I hope you are well.  We are.  I will continue to check in here from time to time as I think there is something worth reading.

Saturday, October 17, 2015

It is October 10th and Felix and I have been home a little less than two weeks.  I had ambitions of blogging while on the road, but that truly was an absurd notion, so this will be my attempt at the summer wrap up.

Since it was July when I last reported on our summer out West, needless to say there have been a number of things that have come to pass.  Shortly after I last brought you up to speed my friend Brenda arrived from Asheville for a week visit.  Brenda had never been to California in spite of being a world traveler, so she left things almost entirely up to me in terms of setting an agenda for our time together.

We did do some of the standard stuff in and around Sacramento and hiked with Felix a few of the mornings before we headed out for other activities but the major events included a day trip to San Francisco, capped off by a stroll through Presidio Heights and dinner at Sociale, one of my favorite San Francisco dining spot.  It is hard to visit a city like SF with someone who has never been there and figure out what to do in a single day.  We did drive across the Golden Gate for a bayside lunch in Sausalito and then spent a couple hours at the DeYoung and around Golden Gate Park.  We drove along the beaches a bit and through parts of the city, including pretty much the entire length of California Street all the way down to the Financial District and then back out along the Bay and through the Marina.  I think Brenda got a decent first taste of what San Francisco looks and feels like.

One day we drove to Sonoma to have a really great lunch al fresco at Ken and Dede Goddard’s house and got to see Ann and Bowers’ new house under construction.  Felix got to go on this trip and spent much of a languid afternoon in the back yard with Ken while Brenda, Dede, Ann, Bowers and I all took in downtown Sonoma.

I also felt like a quick trip to Lake Tahoe was a necessity since it is one of the truly unique locations in California so we drove up highway 50 to the South Shore, stopped for a short hike near Emerald Bay, worked our way up to Tahoe City and Truckee and then headed back down to Sacramento on I-80.  Tahoe in summer is one of the great joys of Northern California so Felix and I had made plans for a longer visit later in the summer.

One night Anne and Rex Jackson came out to Carmichael for dinner and bridge.  Since Brenda and I met playing bridge, and since this would be my only opportunity all summer to keep any kind of skill up, it became a high priority.  At that point construction on John’s house hadn’t begun so we were able to play in his game room.  How appropriate.

After Brenda’s visit things got quieter for a while.  Aside from Ingrid and Larry whose day-trip turned into a quick overnight, I had no other visitors staying with me in Carmichael.  I did manage to catch up with a number of old friends, usually over dinner at John’s guesthouse although occasionally dining out.  In some respects this was exactly what I had hoped to be able to do during the summer.  I wanted to settle into something of a routine but get to see lots of old friends without it feeling rushed.  There were a few dinners that were deliberate reunions, and those were fun and quite special.  There were also the inevitable discoveries that some people were in ill health or had suffered serious incidents and illnesses in recent years.  I have come to realize as I work my way into my late 60s that this will be more and more common.  Still, these events reminded me how long I have been gone from California and how, in many ways, I am quite detached from the people who populated my existence for the 33 years I was there.

Felix and I did a weekend trip to see my very old friend Risa and husband Joey at their weekend place in Yountville.  This was fun but a bit of a shock.  I don’t think I had set foot in Yountville since a disastrous lunch at the over-priced, pretentious and hideously overrated French Laundry (of Thomas Keller fame) at least 15-20 years ago.  At that time Yountville was a quiet village one passed through when driving between Napa, St Helena, and Calistoga.  Now it seems to have turned into a total Trendopolis with toney restaurants, shops and galleries everywhere.  I find it somewhat sad when an unspoiled place like Yountville becomes so precious.  I sometimes have fears of that happening to Asheville although I kind of doubt it.  There is a core weird funky quality to Asheville that I think prevents preciousness from coexisting here.

Anyway, aside from 100+ degree temperatures, the weekend was quite fun.  Walking at night was pleasant and when I took Felix out early on Sunday morning there were dozens of hot air balloons ascending just a few blocks from Risa and Joey’s condo.  Quite the visual spectacle first thing in the morning I must say.

In August we spent a week at Lake Tahoe courtesy of Larry and Mary Kaye Young letting us use their house at Tahoe Keys.  This, as it turned out, was a great base of operations at the lake.  With short drives to numerous trailheads we got to do a lot of good hiking.  I had done the Angora Lakes trail with Abner 7 years ago but hadn’t been back since so we did that one again.  Then we did a loop to Fallen Leaf Lake, which for those who haven’t seen it is one of the larger lakes that dot the mountains west of Lake Tahoe.  Fallen Leaf is only a couple miles west of Tahoe off Highway 89 and is probably only about 200 feet above Tahoe in elevation so the hike is quite easy.

Slightly more challenging but I think far more rewarding is the hike to Lake Genevieve in Desolation Wilderness starting on the Meeks Bay trailhead.  This hike is purported to be an 11 mile round trip with about a 1,200 foot vertical rise.  Since the first mile or so of the hike is almost dead flat, the vertical component is still spread out over 4-1/2 miles and consequently never feels like a very difficult climb.  The terrain varies between alpine forest, exposed granite outcroppings, streams and finally beautiful, serene Lake Genevieve.  There are little glimpses of Tahoe from the trail but mostly it is an intimate exploration of the woefully inappropriately named Desolation Wilderness area.  It is so lush in so many places one has to wonder who decided to name it Desolation.  The round trip took about 4 hours at a fairly leisurely pace with the requisite stops for sniffing and peeing by the 4-legged hiker.
The final road trip prior to heading back east was my trip to Fort Bragg for Winesong and the accompanying annual reunion of the same group of old friends who have attended this fundraising event for more than two decades.  We were a slightly smaller group this year but it still felt like the weekend was an orgy of consumption.  Besides eating and drinking all day at the event itself, Friday night traditionally involves dinner at Rick and Louise’s house for everyone who is there in time, and then the Saturday night abalone feed that we all look forward to all year.

The weekend was fun and ended, as usual with coffee and farewells at Rick and Louise’s.  I headed back to Sacramento along Highway 20, which passes long the North side of Clear Lake.  Considering that one of the worst fires in the entire season in California had started less than 24 hours before, this was a very strange experience.  Normally when you drive this route you can see the mountains on the other side of the lake and the drive is actually quite scenic.  The smoke was so thick from the fire that you could only see a couple hundred feet out into the lake.  You could smell it even in a closed car with air recirculating.  There were dozens of fire trucks on the road going the opposite direction and I decided not to stop for fuel until I had made it past all the bad air and into the Sacramento Valley. 

It is actually quite heartbreaking to see what has happened along this route in the last year.  So many fires have hit Lake County near the lake itself that you drive past huge areas of burned out trees.  Those that aren’t burned are mostly dead from drought and other ravages.  The entire state is reeling from the serious drought that has gone on for about 5 years now and you see dead trees everywhere.  My memory of my 33 years in California doesn’t include the way it looks now and this is sad.  I can’t imagine anyone still living there who doesn’t consider climate change to be a very serious issue now. . .not something that may become a problem in the future, or most inexplicably, something that doesn’t even exist.

The final week out West consisted mostly of saying goodbye to people, doing laundry, packing clothes to be sent ahead, and in general buttoning things up after 4 months.  I had finalized the route to Indiana the week before Winesong and on the 22nd of September, left Carmichael as planned around 9:00 in the morning.

The first day heading east was a fun one.  I drove up I-80 through the Sierras and into Nevada.  Shortly after passing Reno there is a turnoff for Fallon and the connection to US Highway 50.  I had never driven all the way across Nevada on 50, a route called “the loneliest road in America”.  This title is somewhat deserved as there are very few towns or settlements along the road.  Nonetheless, it is by far the more scenic route across this largely uninhabited State.  80 goes through Nevada on a far more Northerly route past scenery that lacks the drama of the 50 crossing, and in spite of being mostly 2-lane road, the lack of trucks and other cars, and the very long straight stretches affording limitless visibility allow you to cross this desert without anything delaying your pace.  Even if you do come upon a large truck going slower than you want, passing is so easy it never was an issue.

We went as far as Delta, Utah the first day.  Delta is not a town where one would feel compelled to stop but I did due to the availability of a dog friendly reasonably priced hotel.  We did a quick overnight stop and got up the next morning for the long and scenic drive to Denver.  50 continues southeast from Delta to a junction with I-15 which you take Northbound for a few miles before jumping back onto 50 again.  The last 30 miles of this lovely route are almost as unencumbered as the stretch through Nevada had been, after which one picks up I-70 East.  This is a very interesting and scenic route through most of Utah.  You are South of all the major cities and North of the big national parks driving through widely varied and beautiful terrain.  Sometimes you find yourself surrounded by red rock canyons and mesas with almost mystical spires of stone eroded by millennia of water and wind into unworldly shapes.  Then, only a few miles on, you will encounter almost white limestone formations.  I think this route would be a geologist’s paradise.  It would be hard to drive it without stopping every few miles to take in the next natural wonder.

Unfortunately, since one of my headlights failed as I was pulling into the hotel in Delta the night before, and since I had determined that the only VW dealership where I could get it fixed was in Littleton, CO, I was on a mission to get to Denver before their service department closed, so extra stops, even to take in great beauty were not a possibility.  As it turned out, with the amount of road construction on I-70 I was not able to make Denver in time to get the repair done before closing anyway so it’s a pity I hadn’t stopped along the way.  Lesson learned.

My nephew Ben and his wife Elizabeth bought a house in Littleton in early summer so Felix and I overnighted with them.  As it turned out they were tied up that evening and had to leave the following morning fairly early since they had a flight to Cincinnati from which they would drive to Fort Wayne for the same party I was headed to by car.  Needless to say our visit was brief.

I had an appointment to have the headlight fixed in the morning that took longer than I thought it would but Felix and I eventually hit the road around 10:30 in the morning.  What I hadn’t remembered is how mind-numbing the drive across Eastern Colorado, all of Kansas, and part of Missouri can be.  It seems that no matter which East/West route you take, there is a stretch through the middle of the country that will kill any interest you have in road trips.  I have crossed this stretch on I-20, I-40, I-70, I-80 and I-90 and to one degree or another it is lethal on every one of them.  I had somewhat expected this for the Kansas section but had forgotten that the Eastern 200 miles or so of Colorado is just as flat and featureless as most of Kansas.  Speed limits are usually 75 in these areas and I took advantage of the opportunity to get through it all as fast as I could.  We made it to Columbia, MO that night although considerably later than I would have liked.  The next morning we did the drive to St. Louis with little in the way of delay but once we crossed the Mississippi River and entered Illinois it was nothing but delays.  I-70 all the way across Illinois and for about the first 15-20 miles of Indiana is in varying degrees of construction.  We would hit a wall of traffic that would slow to 30 and then stop and go for long periods of time.  Eventually we would get past the blockage, traffic would speed up, and then in another 6 miles the exact same thing would happen.  This is true all the way across Illinois.  I don’t know how long these road improvements will be underway but there is no way I would opt for that route until they are finished.  It was torture.

Eventually we made it to Fort Wayne in the early evening.  I got us checked into the hotel, changed into slightly more acceptable clothing and headed over to my parents’ house for dinner with the various members of the family who had already arrived.

Saturday was the day of the party for my mother’s 90th and my father’s 95th birthdays.  We had arranged for a bouncy house in the front yard, a couple tents with table and chairs for dinner, and some live entertainment as well as a Donald Trump piƱata for my liberal parents to take a swing at.  Guests were invited to arrive around 4:00 with dinner sometime after 6:00.  During the day Jan, Lisa, Dave and I worked at getting things set up.  Stringing lights all over the tents was my task, which mindless though it was, was kind of fun.  Lisa decorated the tables really nicely with flowers and framed pictures of our parents in various stages of their 70 years together and Dave and I made an attempt to hide the mess in the garage with sheets hanging from ceiling joists so the musicians had a somewhat acceptable space in which to sit and play.

All in all the party came off well I think.  The little kids used the bouncy house. . .never did convince either of my parents to try it out.  Dad and Mom both took swings at Trump and then we started with the youngest of the kids with everyone taking a swing at it until my niece Arlee did some real damage and then her brother Cort eventually broke him open.

People stuck around until 9:30 or so and then we all trundled off to our various housing locales for the night.  Most reassembled for a catered brunch my mother had arranged for Sunday morning and then all but my brother and I started peeling off for various homes.

On Monday morning Felix and I got a reasonably early start since we were facing the 9-hour drive back to Asheville but it really went without a hitch or delay.  We had good weather the whole way back and unlike most of my experiences with this route, we encountered no problems in Southern Kentucky or Northern Tennessee.  We made it home in time to have a quick visit with Josh and Lanny who had been in the house all summer and then headed off to the vet so some sores Felix had developed on the trip home could be evaluated.

That night, September 28th, I slept in my own bed for the first time since May 14th and it felt good.

In thinking about the summer I have drawn a number of conclusions.  After 11 years away, I am no longer, in any way, a Sacramentan.  Sacramento has changed a lot in that time.  Among other things the population has increased by something in the neighborhood of 600,000 people and you can see it everywhere.  Traffic is horrible almost all day on the freeways.  There is a lot of construction going on but almost none of it to improve infrastructure to handle this huge increase in population.  In short, Sacramento is no longer as easy or comfortable to live in as it was when I was living there.

Another observation is that my relationships with some of the people there could start up as if no time had passed at all, and others were somewhat awkward.  Some friends seemed to be almost unchanged and others, particularly those whose health has taken some hits, are very different.  Consequently the dozens of interactions were widely varied from gratifying to sad, to outright squirm-worthy.  Some people seemed virtually ageless and others seemed to have aged shockingly, which of course made me think that some of them probably had the exact same reaction upon seeing me.

It was really nice to be able to see so many people and places that I remember fondly, and to spread out those visits over the whole summer, but in the end 4-1/2 months is a long time to be away from home, even when you have the comfort of a friend’s guest house all to yourself.  Returning to Asheville and spending the last few weeks slowly getting back into my “normal” life has served as a reminder of why I love living here.  I am lucky enough to be in a very beautiful place that affords me many comforts and enjoyable experiences but is easy to live in and to get around.  After almost 11 years here I have a circle of friends and acquaintances who differ greatly from those in California, if for no other reason, because they met me at a completely different time of my life, but these relationships are still rewarding and give me comfort in the place Felix and I call home.  We are both glad to be back.

 These are early morning shots from John's house looking at the river and the Sierras

 On a walk in July with Felix we passed this odd memorial that a man built for his deceased wife along a trail adjacent to the American River Parkway.  Below is one of the many views of the river along the trails.

 When my friend Brenda came to visit in early July we went to San Francisco (on a very foggy day, as you can see above) and Lake Tahoe (on a clear and beautiful one)

 These photos above and below were on the Eagle Falls Trail above Emerald Bay

 There is a lot of activity on the American River on hot summer days.  I was amazed at the flotillas that went by below us, usually with at least some evidence of drunkenness.

 The shot above is early morning at John's house.  Below is the old Fair Oaks Bridge, which is now open only to pedestrians and bicyclists.

 The views from the bluffs above and upstream from the bridge are quite beautiful and distant if it is a clear day.
 I saw the couple below on their paddleboards many times.  Sometimes their dog swam along as he was doing on the day I took this shot.  Other times he stood on the board with the woman paddler.

 The Crape Myrtle above is proof that this species likes dry soil.  This was the only outrageously healthy tree I saw in poor parched California.  The big ole vulture perched in the tree below was a frequent visitor who seemed undisturbed by Felix and me being only 15 or so feet away from him on John's deck.

 More scenes hiking along the American River.  The egrets generally took off when they spotted Felix, even if we were on the other side of the river.

 Rob came by for a day in August when he returned from his summer in New Hampshire.  He and Carolyn were getting ready for their monumental hike of the John Muir Trail from Yosemite to Mount Whitney.

 I was struck by how oddly beautiful the underside of the Sunrise Boulevard Bridge is, with or without Felix.

 Early morning in Yountville, before Risa and Joey were up, Felix wanted to go for a walk.   As soon as we went outside we were treated to the amazing sight and sound of bunches of hot air balloons launching.

 In late summer we spent a week at my friends' Larry and Mary Kaye's house in Tahoe Keys.  Robyn came for a couple days visit and we hiked.  The first group of shots were all taken around Angora Lakes.

 The shot below is early morning in Tahoe Keys.
 The next group of shots were all taken on our hike to Fallen Leaf Lake.

 One night we went to eat at the Beacon at Camp Richardson where these shots were taken.  Robyn has a big smile on her face even though we didn't have our drinks yet.

 This is what it looks like at 6:30 in the morning from Larry and Mary Kaye's house.  People without demanding dogs don't ever see this.
 Back in Sacramento my car lost an argument with a parking lot bollard.  Ouch.

 The best hike of the summer was one Felix and I did from Meeks Bay to Lake Genevieve in the Desolation Wilderness.  I have always thought this was a bizarre name considering that it is anything but desolate.

 On the way down from Lake Genevieve one is treated to a brief glimpse of Tahoe through the trees.

 Robyn taught me how to use the panorama setting on my iPhone after only two years of my attempting to use it incorrectly.  You will, no doubt get sick of seeing these wide panoramic shots.

The photo below was on the same hike as the ones before and after but it was a little strange.  The people who were watching this spectacle with me were pretty sure it was a wedding and there were guesses that the people were Russian or some other Eastern European ethnic group.

 The photo above finally begins to capture what John's house actually looks like. . .thanks to my learning to use the panorama setting.  The shot below was taken from directly across the river on one of the horse trails.

 Since Rob's birthday was the week our friend Bethyn was to visit him in Yosemite, we celebrated a couple weeks earlier with a dinner at the guest house.  Felix planted a happy birthday kiss on him.

 If you click on the above photo so it enlarges you can see a deer that had just walked across the shockingly shallow river and was climbing out on the South bank.  The shot below is on the coast in Fort Bragg where we finished our summer at Winesong with the usual suspects.

 There are scads of water fowl along the American and one last shot of John's place from the South bank.  If you look carefully there is a tiny figure wearing orange standing on the deck waving.  That's Robyn.
 The next series of photos are all taken from the car while heading East on US Highway 50 "the loneliest road in America" through Nevada and the Western third of Utah.  It is very beautiful and tremendously varied.  I strongly recommend this route to anyone who drives cross country to or from California.

 This windmill farm seemed to appear in the middle of nowhere.

 The geology you pass when driving through Utah varies enormously from mile to mile.  It was all spectacular.  Sorry about the dead bug smears all over the windshield in these shots.  This is one of the unavoidable hazards of a major road trip.

 The party for my parents' birthdays was a big success.
 I was not the designated photographer but got this nice shot of my sister Lisa, her husband David, and their daughters Kailee and Arlee.