Well, I tried uploading these photos in a sensible sequence but to no avail. Above is one of a dozen or more somewhat cornie "selfies" Rob took of us hiking to Franconia Falls one day. Since he is not a big fan of photographs of himself he usually makes somewhat bizarre faces. The shot above is one of the more straightforward ones. The two photos below were on some side creek where we were looking for critters or their eggs.
This was the view in the car on the Kancamagus highway from Conway to Lincoln.
These shots were from my solo hike on my last day in NH when I based myself out of the Pinkham Notch visitor center.
The photo below as well as two down from this one were taken at the Institute for Contemporary Art, Boston. In between is another of Rob's shots of us at the Franconia Falls trail.
Old Ironsides, at the Charlestown Navy Yard fascinated me when I was a kid and still does.
Above is a classic sign in the Navy yard and below is the view of the TD Garden from my room at The Boxer.
The photo above is of Felix the first day I picked him up in Atlanta when he was adjusting to everything being new and strange.
He still likes being a lap dog but that probably won't work for much longer.
Back on the NH trip, these shots were taken on the way up to and at the summit of Eagle Mountain.
Below is the Eagle Mountain House, where I stayed for 4 nights as viewed from the summit. It is actually farther away but I used the telephoto lens to see it better.
Above is Rob exercising the very New Hampshire tendency to ignore authority. The shot below is mostly about my fascination with moss. This was a tree that was positively festooned in the stuff. We encountered this on the way back from Franconia Falls. You will note that Rob is dressed for wet weather, which we encountered about 4 or 5 times that day.
An online, ongoing stream of consciousness description of the life Abner and Steven are leading in Asheville.
Monday, June 09, 2014
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
This is Felix. He was born on March 11, 2014 in Ramona, CA and came to me on May 23rd. He is a very sweet and cooperative puppy. No one will ever take Abner's place, but this little bundle of affection is already occupying a big place in my life.
Sunday, April 13, 2014
Much has transpired since my posting in late January, and
most of it has been pretty good. I did
return from my trip to the Northeast with a truly horrible cold that, from what
I gathered, had afflicted much of the population of the US at one time or another
during the winter months. I usually
avoid these nasty viruses but this time I couldn’t dodge the bullet.
The worst of it for me was, as I mentioned in my last post,
while I was in New York but the frigid temperatures I encountered in Washington
didn’t help and by the time I got home to Asheville I was still pretty
sick.
With the prospect of only a week before getting on the plane
to Puerto Rico, I decided that I needed to be more proactive in getting rid of
my symptoms so I contacted my doctor and in short order was on Prednisone,
Augmentin and some pretty ferocious cough medicine. It all helped a lot and by the time I left
for San Juan, while not completely better, I felt much improved. In fact my head didn’t explode when the plane
took off and pressurized so that was a pretty decent indication that the
medications worked the way they were supposed to.
The time in Puerto Rico was relatively uneventful. My parents had rented a condo on the beach
about 15 minutes drive from Old San Juan for the entire month of February. The plan was for me to stay in the extra
bedroom in their condo and for my sister Lisa and her husband David to stay in
a hotel that was next door.
The condo is situated on a beach that is probably a mile and
a half long, wide and immaculately clean.
While it appears to be pretty popular, particularly on the weekends, it
is so large that it never really felt all that crowded. I walked the length of it several times and
had a good gape at the most interesting break in the continuous wall of condos
and hotels that line it. At one point
about 2/3 of the distance from my parents’ condo to the Western end of the
beach is a fairly large and very old cemetery.
It is odd to see something like this fronting on a beach but it is
pretty clear that it predated the construction and development that now flanks
the sand.
We really didn’t do a hell of a lot aside from lying around,
reading and eating. One day we all went
into Old San Juan to have lunch (dreadful experience) and go see the two
Spanish Colonial era forts that are now operated by the National Park
Service. I had been to one of them on an
earlier trip to Puerto Rico but seeing it again and the other one for the first
time turned out to be a real treat. My
sister and brother in law both joined me for these visits and I got to use my
National Park senior pass for the first time.
It got us all in for free. . .another one of the perks of getting older.
We had a couple nice dinners out and my mother cooked at the
condo a couple times as well so I didn’t spend too much time worried about my
next meal. This tends to be the hallmark
of traveling with my family. Life
consists of planning for the next meal before the last one has begun to digest.
I managed to fly home without incident and spent a couple
weeks back in Asheville before my scheduled trip to Melbourne Beach to see my
friends Ann and Bowers. This trip turned
out to be very well timed in that the late unpleasant gasps of winter weather
were hitting Asheville just as I drove out of town. I got to enjoy 5 days at the beach with Ann
(Bowers was gone for most of the time I was there) with mild weather. . .mostly
70s daytime highs and light to brisk breezes.
We walked the dog every day, ate in and out, and for the first time in
my life, I played duplicate bridge.
I have played social bridge since my Aunt Ruthie and her
mother taught me to play in the back of their furniture store in November of
1959 in Sioux City, IA. Playing
duplicate is quite different although I have played something called Chicago
Bridge since August at the Reuter Center at UNCA so I did have a pretty good
idea how it all works. Ann and I did
pretty well in spite of some mis-steps in bidding (mostly on my part but Ann
was kind enough to screw up once so I didn’t feel quite so bad). It was quite an experience although I can’t
see myself playing duplicate here. It
think it requires you to have a partner and pretty consistent times that you
play. . .not my style at this time of my life.
After 5 days I returned to Asheville for a few days of
reading mail and doing laundry and then
Faye and Jay blew into town for an 8-day visit.
It had been just under a year since their last visit so we decided in
advance to do a field trip for a few days so they could see things they hadn’t
seen on either of their previous visits.
So, after Jay finished dutifully attending the veterinary oncology
conference he came for, we jumped in my car and headed South to Beaufort,
SC. As regular readers of this blog know
from previous posts, I really like Beaufort.
It is about an hour and a half
drive from Charleston, and about an hour and 10 minutes from Savannah but is
quite unique and interesting in itself.
Once again I found myself heading out of town in uninspired
weather and driving into sun and warmth.
The drive to Beaufort is a bit over 4 hours but with company in the car
it isn’t so bad. You don’t have to
suffer through quite as much of Interstate 95 as I had endured on the drive to
and from Ann and Bowers’ beach house so this one felt like a walk in the
park.
We arrived with plenty of time to check into the City Loft
Hotel right smack in the middle of downtown Beaufort and do a little walking
around the downtown and historic residential district that surrounds it before
cleaning up and resting a bit prior to dinner.
I had gotten wind of a new place (at least new since I was
last there) called the Old Bull Tavern.
We had heard from the desk guy at the hotel that they didn’t take
reservations, which did not turn out to be the case. Still, we naively thought that we could just
walk in and get a table since it was a Wednesday night in a relatively sleepy
town. Boy were we wrong. The place was only about a two-block walk but
when we walked in we were immediately aware of the fact that there wasn’t an
empty spot in the place.
We were lucky enough, after talking to the proprietor and
putting our names on the wait list, to be offered seats at the bar by a lovely
local woman who was joining friends of hers at the large loungey area in the
front of the restaurant. We had a drink
or two and relatively quickly managed to score three seats at the communal
table, also in the front of the room.
The joint was really jumping but the service was very
good. Our server was informative and
attentive and gave us very good recommendations (as had other diners and people
at the bar. . .everyone had an opinion about what was great, which as it turned
out, everything was). We had a fantastic
dinner and by the time we were finishing up the owner sat down and chatted with
us for about 10 minutes. This was a
truly delightful evening and I would strongly suggest that if you find yourself
near Beaufort, schedule a dinner at The Old Bull Tavern.
The next day we headed off to Hunting Island State Park and
toured the island as thoroughly as Faye’s sore knee would allow. She couldn’t join Jay and me when we climbed
to the top of the historic lighthouse, but other than that she was pretty game
with our walks out the boardwalk over the marsh side of the park and along the
beach on the seaside.
After a few hours we headed back. . .Faye having gotten to
the point where she really needed some down time. Jay and I ate a fashionably late lunch and
rode bikes the hotel provides free for guests.
These are pretty funky town bikes but they were fine for exploring the
relatively flat beautifully shaded streets of Beaufort’s historic residential
neighborhoods. I have been to this small
city 4 times now and every time I go I like it better. It is so tempting to try to score some small
piece of real estate here. One fantasy
is to buy a house that I would rent out for most of the year but could use for
a few weeks at a time if I have the need to get out of Asheville for a
bit. You are close to the ocean and an
easy day trip to either Charleston or Savannah.
I will probably never do this but it is a nice fantasy.
We had another excellent dinner on Thursday night at Wren,
where I have eaten in the past and expected a superb experience. It was burger night during which if you order
their monstrously proportioned burger it comes with fries for $9. You can supplement this beast with various
additions that are priced from free to $3 each so it can, if you really want to
gild the lily, get more costly. I kept it
fairly simple with a generous glob of blue cheese and could only get through
half of the burger.
I probably shouldn’t have opted for this since it is so easy
to make a good burger at home and in general my tendency in restaurants is to
order dishes that are too complex or too hard for me to do well at home. The only reason I did the burger was that it
was such a bargain. It was excellent of
course, but not nearly as exciting as food I have had at Wren in the past. The room is still beautiful and the food is
great. Try it as well as OBT if you are
in town.
For our last full day we headed off
to Savannah for the day. I had
pre-arranged dinner at a place called Local Ten11 Food and Wine,
having read about it rather extensively online. I hadn’t specifically arranged for anything
else that day though, in part because I was not sure what Faye would be able to
handle with her progressively more painful knee, which was by then exacerbated
by the first stages of a nasty cold the reminded me of the one I had had in New
England last January.
We did some light
walking around some of Savannah’s historic residential squares and along the
overly touristy waterfront. We also did
a light lunch composed mostly of leftovers from large meals we had ordered the
day before while sitting in one of the waterfront parks that line the Savannah
river. It was a gorgeous sunny day so it
was really a pleasant way to see the city and enjoy our lunch in the open.
In the afternoon we
did a little shopping (I found the most amazing boots at ShopSCAD designed by a
SCAD grad whose line is called Michael Grey Footwear _ see http://www.michaelgreyfootwear.com/)
and then went for some pre dinner drinks.
All day I was trying to connect by phone with a Pyrenees breeder from
Petaluma, CA but to no avail so I walked around somewhat frustrated with the
day, but still enjoying the city more than I had on previous visits.
Dinner was very good
but frankly, in my opinion, overpriced and the service was not great. Savannah is one of those towns with a lot of
competition for whose restaurant is the hot spot to go to at any given time and
this place clearly is a contender. The
room is lovely and the location is just far enough from the central downtown
district that you don’t fell the omnipresence of tourists that you do as you
get closer to the river. There is a
rooftop bar that we didn’t go to (Faye’s knee couldn’t have handled it) so we
sat down and ordered our dinner as soon as we got in. The place filled up rapidly and turned out to
be quite lively. Like I mentioned, the
food was excellent but it was so pricey I found it a little hard to justify the
cost. Our server wasn’t very attentive
and made a few mistakes, which didn’t make it any easier to stomach the rather
monumental bill at the end of the meal.
After dinner we got
back in the car and headed back to Beaufort for one last night. On Saturday morning we got up, walked across
Carteret Street to a market/café where we bought lunch to eat on the road and
by about 10:15 in the morning we were on the way back to Asheville.
The drive back was
uneventful although by then Faye really felt lousy. We had plans for dinner with Matt and Amy
that evening but in the end Faye couldn’t handle joining us so Jay and I
attended the dinner without her. We
still had a nice time at Storm in downtown Asheville.
Sunday was departure
day for Faye and Jay so just after noon I took them out to the airport for
their flight home. It was, in spite of
Faye’s injuries and illness, a really pleasant and fun visit.
The back-story that I
haven’t mentioned is that this whole time I was torn between two possibilities
for getting a Pyrenees puppy. As most of
you know, I have been trying since August to get a new pup but with no
luck. The breeders in Radford VA with
whom I thought I would be doing business tried twice to produce puppies from a
young female they have but it didn’t work out.
In the fall she didn’t get pregnant and when they tried again in January
she did get pregnant but 4-1/2 weeks into it her body reabsorbed the
fetuses. Between those two I had hoped
to contract with a breeder in Salem, OR who had been recommended to me but her
attempt at breeding one of her females also failed to produce a pregnancy.
So finally finding
out that there were two breeders in CA both of whom had litters born in early
March was a source of considerable excitement and angst. While Faye and Jay were here I was emailing
and phoning back and forth between the two until I finally settled on buying a
puppy from Kim Lasley. Kim bred Abner as
well as the father of Harvey, my first Pyr.
I have known her on and off for close to 20 years and in the end decided
that my chances of a good fit with the puppy were best with her.
As things stand, the
puppies who were born on March 11th will be available for
transportation to their new homes by mid-to-late May. Our plan currently is for Kim’s eldest
daughter to fly to Atlanta with my pup on the night of the 22nd of
May. She is going to see her friend in
Pensacola and I guess it is convenient for her to fly through Atlanta. By taking a red-eye there should be no issues
with the ground temperatures either at departure or arrival airports so unless
things change, on the morning of May 23rd I will show up at the
Atlanta airport and meet my new pup. I
am trying not to get too keyed up about this since things can happen and
situations change, but right now it looks pretty promising.
Life in Asheville is
pretty normal right now. I spent a
couple days with my friend Lanny’s parents and brother when they were here last
week and on Tuesday I will take our buddy Tucker and his parents through
Biltmore (I guess I have unofficially become an expert guide there). Then in two weeks I will leave for one more
road trip, this time to Ithaca to see one of my nieces, Jackson, NH to see Rob
and Carolyn, and one more quick stop in Boston.
I should be home by May 9th which will leave me with two
weeks to prepare for the arrival of the puppy.
After that, my assumption
is that I will be largely homebound until the new arrival is trained and
experienced well enough to travel with me or be left with a sitter at home if I
have to fly somewhere. This is fine
really. I have been doing so much travel
since the beginning of the year it won’t kill me to stay home for the remainder
of it although I will miss seeing all my California friends this fall. I do believe though that it is time that I
have this new dog in my life. It has
been more than a year and a half since I lost Abner to cancer and more and more
I feel that my life won’t go back to something resembling normal or happy
without getting someone else (with 4 legs and lots of white hair) into it. I guess we will all see how this goes.
It’s a beautiful day
in Asheville and I am going to go out and enjoy it. More later.
OK. I have no idea why Blogger has decided to highlight this last section in white. Sorry but I have tried every formatting trick I can think of to fix it and nothing works. You can thank Google and their decision to offer no customer support on anything.
OK. I have no idea why Blogger has decided to highlight this last section in white. Sorry but I have tried every formatting trick I can think of to fix it and nothing works. You can thank Google and their decision to offer no customer support on anything.
If everything goes according to plan, I will end up with one of these two puppies in my house on May 23rd. These photos were taken when they were 15 days old and still looking a lot like guinea pigs.
The two adult dogs below are the parents. Mom is on the left and she has a striking resemblance to Abner.
The two adult dogs below are the parents. Mom is on the left and she has a striking resemblance to Abner.
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Two Weeks on the Road in the Northeast
Well I survived my mid-winter visit to the Northeast and surprisingly it was pretty much the opposite of what I might have expected it to be. It was warm in the Northernmost extreme of the itinerary and was positively frigid in Washington, the Southern end.
The first day I drove from Asheville (very warm. . .60ish the day I left) as far as Allentown, PA where I had already arranged to stop for the first night. It took just about an hour less than Google maps had predicted so in some respects I was tempted to press on so my drive the next day to North Conway, NH would be shorter but I had booked a hotel on Priceline, which meant it was already paid for, and consequently the frugal side of me couldn't convince the convenience side to continue and blow off the cost of the room.
Allentown appears to be an old rust belt city in attractive countryside but a bit down on its heels. The hotel I had booked was at the very center of downtown Allentown so I got to see what the drive in from the freeway looked like. I passed all the standard Interstate-flanking hotels and fast food establishments, drove past various more urban looking commercial and residential neighborhoods and eventually got to downtown. It was early evening but you could get a sense of what the place looked like and my reaction was that it had probably, at one time, been an attractive and thriving industrial city. Now it is a tad run down but nothing like the dangerous war zone some of the people who had written about the hotel on TripAdvisor and Priceline had described. One reviewer had talked about his/her fear of walking from the parking garage to the hotel entrance (50-feet maximum) at night and once I did it I had to laugh. Besides everything else, the main police department for the city is about a block away. If I were going to try to mug a hotel guest I would probably choose a hotel that wasn't quite so close to the center of police activity.
I had a quick, disappointing, and overpriced sushi dinner at a restaurant about a block from the hotel and then went back to my room where I watched the first episode of the new season of Downton Abbey. Parenthetically I have to say, I am almost over this show. It is just too soapy for my taste. I know it is supposed to be but I think the writing, in some cases, is just too ridiculous and some of the story-lines are so preposterous that you wouldn't buy them on an afternoon soap on a US network soap so why should you at night on PBS. Bad writing and overacting are the same no matter when or on what venue you see them.
In the morning I got an early start for my drive to North Conway. This took me across the last few miles of Eastern Pennsylvania where I got to witness a semi-trailer fully engulfed in flames on the opposite side of the freeway. Most entertaining. Then onto New Jersey where I elected to take a route that pretty much skirted the major suburban areas of New York, took me across the Tappan Zee Bridge into Westchester, onto the Hutchinson River Parkway and from there into Connecticut and the always lovely Merritt Parkway.
It had been many years since I had driven these roads and either things have changed or I just didn't remember but the Merritt, which is an old, comparatively narrow 4-lane limited access parkway with difficult short entry ramps has always had fairly slow speed limits as it should. Most of the way, the limits are in the 50-55 area and where there is construction on the shoulders or at the frequent bridges, it is all you can do to drive safely even at those speeds. Connecticut drivers clearly do not agree. I had my cruise control set at about 60ish most of the time and was incessantly passed by cars that flew by so quickly I could barely see what they were. At one point I made the mistake of pulling into the left lane to allow a car getting on at a particularly short entry point only to have the woman who immediately pulled out behind me and tailgated mercilessly to flip me her upraised middle finger quite enthusiastically when I pulled back to the right so she could pass. Not only were most of them severe speeders but quite a few were outright rude. This became less true the further East I progressed. The worst offenders were in the obscenely wealthy areas of Fairfield County around Greenwich and New Canaan. Note to self: even if I win the lottery and could afford to live in one of these communities, don't.
Once I was a bit South of Hartford and back on the Interstate system things did get pretty much back to normal. Then I got onto I-84 which pointed me toward Boston and New England. After a quick stop for lunch at a rest area almost on the Massachusetts border I continued on the route that took me through Worcester, Lowell, and Lawrence MA and then up to Portsmouth, NH where I got onto smaller local highways for the picturesque drive to North Conway.
Up to this point the weather was very warm for mid January. It had been about 56 degrees when I stopped for lunch and it was still in the high 40s when I pulled into North Conway at around 3:30 in the afternoon.
I checked into the Kearsarge Inn a block off the main road in North Conway and contacted Rob to let him know I had arrived. Before I had a chance to get my stuff out of the car and into my room he was there. We hadn't seen each other since my trip to Seneca Rocks in early August and his surprise visit to Asheville the following week so it was a really welcome reunion. He helped me get all my crap out of the car and into my commodious room at the Inn and then I gave him the various gifts I had brought from home. I think the one he appreciated the most was a 12-pack of Highland Brewery's Cold Mountain Winter Ale. This stuff is available in Asheville very briefly each winter and when I saw it at Earthfare I snagged a case knowing how much Rob loves the stuff. Later I thought maybe I would go back and get some for myself even though I am not much of a beer drinker by a few days had passed and it was gone.
We hung out together for a few hours until Carolyn met up with us having finished her Wilderness First Responder recertification course that afternoon. Then we climbed into my newly emptied car and drove to the White Mountain Cider Company for Burger Night (every Monday apparently). We had a fun and yummy dinner after which we headed back to the Inn to sit around the gas fireplace and chat before Rob and Carolyn went to his apartment two blocks away for their last night and I crashed with the Sunday New York Times magazine and fell asleep.
In the morning I went over to Rob's with my hiking gear including my new boots rated for 40 degrees below zero and my waterproof outer layer in anticipation of deep snow. We said goodbye to Carolyn and Rob and I headed off to our first hike of the trip. It was warm but misty and occasionally drizzly so Rob had decided on a loop hike in an area of the White Mountains just west of Randolph. Since it was a bit of a drive and we had to go through Pinkham Notch where he had worked several times, we stopped there so he could show me his old stomping grounds and then went onto the town of Gorham for an early lunch before commencing our hike.
The hike was beautiful. I am not sure what the rise was and it probably was only about 3 miles in length but between the snow still on the trails, the rise, and the 4 lovely waterfalls all of which were partially frozen over and almost painfully beautiful, it took us about 2-1/2 hours of hiking to complete the route. As usual I was over-dressed and was wet but entirely from perspiration rather than precipitation. Rob, of course, probably still had a pulse of about 30 bpm because for him this hike was literally a walk in the woods.
These photos cannot really begin to capture how pretty this hike was but believe me I felt great and had no qualms about eating well that night.
After dinner was over comparatively early, Rob wanted to go to the wine section of a local supermarket to get a little input on some reasonably priced but dependable wines he and Carolyn could try when they are dining in so we spent some time going down the aisle and cherry picking the selection. After that though, the night was still young so we walked to the adjacent movie theater to see if there was anything worth seeing and settled, with little thought, on The Wolf of Wall Street, which had just barely started.
I will not belabor my reaction to this film. At three hours in length, much of which was spent in way-too-long scenes of Leonardo DiCaprio exhorting his fellow criminals into greater efforts and scamming their clients, I left wondering why Scorcese made this movie. Although it had a few amusing moments, it would have been far better at about an hour and 40 minutes in length and frankly, in my opinion, would have been best not made at all. I wasn't put off by the constant use of the all-purpose part of speech "fuck". I am inured to that and most other words. My problem was that it was, irrespective of its basis in fact, a story that didn't merit being told either for entertainment value or a moral lesson. It was vivid and long but essentially boring and painful to watch. Films where you have utterly no sympathy of any of the characters often are just too hard to stomach.
When, at last, it ended, all either of us wanted to do was crawl into bed in a fetal position and try to regain some sense of a reason to continue living. Getting up the following morning to bright sunshine, blue skies and only moderately cold weather accomplished that.
The Wednesday morning was, in fact, so gorgeous that Rob developed a plan to really use the great weather to full advantage. We got an early start at the coffee shop, Frontside Grind, where we have started the previous day. I got a big coffee and a bagel so I would have some food in me to get going on and Rob went for an even more substantial meal. Then we hit the road for The Highland Center run by AMC in the area of Crawford Notch. In the parking lot I was instructed in the installation of micro-spikes on my boots and we quickly set off on the easy approach to the trailhead for Mt Willard. The hike to the summit seems to be a rise of somewhere in the 1,000-1,200 foot range and is a very pleasant trail through stands of mostly conifers. There was some snow on the ground but actually surprisingly little for mid-January in the Whites. Still, I was glad to have both the micro-spikes on my boots, and my good old trusty ski poles which Rob had wisely advised me to bring.
We reached the summit in about an hour or so and paused at the spectacular open view on top.
We stayed at the summit long enough to really enjoy the view, the sun and just the pleasure of the day, and to get a few photos to satisfy my need for memories of the hike, and then headed back down along the same trail.
The round trip took about an hour and a half including the time at the top so we were just in time to head into the lodge building to get a rather hearty lunch of soup and sandwich so there was fuel for the afternoon's activities, about which I knew little. Rob, however, knew what we would be up to.
The stop was brief although we did take in a wonderful photography exhibit in one of the AMC buildings before jumping back in the car and heading a bit farther Northwest to Zealand.
Once there, we togged up for the second ascent of the day. This time the plan was to go to the summit of at least one, if not both, of the Sugarloaf peaks. The approach was probably about a mile and a half or so but it is very easy hiking up a very gently sloping closed road so I was lulled into thinking this would be a cakewalk. Once you get to the trail up to the summits though it does become a regular narrow trail through forest with lots of roots to pay attention to and the occasional spot where one could slip if not careful. As a rule I would try to follow Rob's foot placement but sometimes he was far enough ahead of me that I had no idea how he had gone so I did make a few mistakes but didn't actually end up on my ass until the descent.
The trail also was steeper than I had expected. From the distance at which I first saw these peaks they didn't look very high. At a point of progress up the trail though where I would have thought we must have been 2/3 of the way to the top we stopped for me to rest for a couple seconds and Rob pointed up to what suddenly looked like a really big peak up to our left and asked if I was ready to go up there. Suddenly this second summit started to feel daunting.
In fairness I have to say that he offered to alter the plan and take the Trestle Trail which would have involved a descent from where we were and a lot less climbing but I don't like giving up on things I start, so I agreed to forge on. The trail did get a tad steeper but the distance up to the saddle between the two peaks really wasn't that bad. Once we made that height I figured the last couple hundred feet to the peak would be easy. We continued to the North Summit where once again I took in the view and took pictures. This time Mount Washington, the legendary tallest peak in New Hampshire with what is purported to be the worst weather in the US was framed like a post card view.
We tried a few "selfies" in this location but with the brightness of the day and the limits of an iPhone's abilities to perform in cold temperatures, they weren't that great so I will neither bore you with more pictures of us in beautiful locations nor embarrass Rob.
After the appropriate time at the top to really take in the staggering beauty of the spot, we headed back down to the saddle. At that point I was starting to show my age and fatigue and had decided that the South Sugarloaf probably wasn't in my future that afternoon so I suggested that since Rob wants to "Redline" all of these routes, he should go ahead and scoot up the second summit and back while I waited at the saddle. That way he would be able to carve another notch on his belt and I wouldn't have to ascend another even small peak that day.
This is where I have to say, I was reminded of how seriously Rob takes wilderness hiking with clients and, in my case, old friends. He refused to leave me alone for even the 30-40 minutes it would have taken him. The credo of these people who guide and instruct others in enjoying the wilderness is to do nothing that risks the health or welfare of the person they are guiding, and that day, leaving me alone for 40 minutes was apparently going to cross that line.
So, down we climbed. Part way down I did slip and fall flat on my ass but no real damage was done. We made it back to the car with the sun still up but probably a bit after 4:00 PM and I was mightily tired. It is odd for me, but at that moment the idea of sitting in a bar, preferably with a fireplace, and drinking a beer was really appealing and since Rob is a big beer fan, I thought it was a no-brainer but because his North Carolina drivers license no longer really has a recognizable photo on it and since he didn't hike with his passport, I would have been drinking alone, so that plan evaporated and we headed back to North Conway.
That night I took advantage of my deep tub and soaked my achy legs in hot water for a good half hour before getting dressed for my last dinner in New Hampshire. We ate well, went back to my room where Rob put together a series of YouTube videos for me to listen too from musicians he thought I would like (and he was right in several cases). It was a far more pleasant way to finish the night that suffering through the movie we had endured the night before. . . like having a private concert.
In the morning I picked him up to go have a fairly big breakfast. I was driving to Boston and didn't really know if lunch was going to be an option, and he had a big day in the outdoors planned. After that we headed back to Frontside Grind where he was going to check his email. We said our goodbyes and I headed out of town toward Boston.
The first day I drove from Asheville (very warm. . .60ish the day I left) as far as Allentown, PA where I had already arranged to stop for the first night. It took just about an hour less than Google maps had predicted so in some respects I was tempted to press on so my drive the next day to North Conway, NH would be shorter but I had booked a hotel on Priceline, which meant it was already paid for, and consequently the frugal side of me couldn't convince the convenience side to continue and blow off the cost of the room.
Allentown appears to be an old rust belt city in attractive countryside but a bit down on its heels. The hotel I had booked was at the very center of downtown Allentown so I got to see what the drive in from the freeway looked like. I passed all the standard Interstate-flanking hotels and fast food establishments, drove past various more urban looking commercial and residential neighborhoods and eventually got to downtown. It was early evening but you could get a sense of what the place looked like and my reaction was that it had probably, at one time, been an attractive and thriving industrial city. Now it is a tad run down but nothing like the dangerous war zone some of the people who had written about the hotel on TripAdvisor and Priceline had described. One reviewer had talked about his/her fear of walking from the parking garage to the hotel entrance (50-feet maximum) at night and once I did it I had to laugh. Besides everything else, the main police department for the city is about a block away. If I were going to try to mug a hotel guest I would probably choose a hotel that wasn't quite so close to the center of police activity.
I had a quick, disappointing, and overpriced sushi dinner at a restaurant about a block from the hotel and then went back to my room where I watched the first episode of the new season of Downton Abbey. Parenthetically I have to say, I am almost over this show. It is just too soapy for my taste. I know it is supposed to be but I think the writing, in some cases, is just too ridiculous and some of the story-lines are so preposterous that you wouldn't buy them on an afternoon soap on a US network soap so why should you at night on PBS. Bad writing and overacting are the same no matter when or on what venue you see them.
In the morning I got an early start for my drive to North Conway. This took me across the last few miles of Eastern Pennsylvania where I got to witness a semi-trailer fully engulfed in flames on the opposite side of the freeway. Most entertaining. Then onto New Jersey where I elected to take a route that pretty much skirted the major suburban areas of New York, took me across the Tappan Zee Bridge into Westchester, onto the Hutchinson River Parkway and from there into Connecticut and the always lovely Merritt Parkway.
It had been many years since I had driven these roads and either things have changed or I just didn't remember but the Merritt, which is an old, comparatively narrow 4-lane limited access parkway with difficult short entry ramps has always had fairly slow speed limits as it should. Most of the way, the limits are in the 50-55 area and where there is construction on the shoulders or at the frequent bridges, it is all you can do to drive safely even at those speeds. Connecticut drivers clearly do not agree. I had my cruise control set at about 60ish most of the time and was incessantly passed by cars that flew by so quickly I could barely see what they were. At one point I made the mistake of pulling into the left lane to allow a car getting on at a particularly short entry point only to have the woman who immediately pulled out behind me and tailgated mercilessly to flip me her upraised middle finger quite enthusiastically when I pulled back to the right so she could pass. Not only were most of them severe speeders but quite a few were outright rude. This became less true the further East I progressed. The worst offenders were in the obscenely wealthy areas of Fairfield County around Greenwich and New Canaan. Note to self: even if I win the lottery and could afford to live in one of these communities, don't.
Once I was a bit South of Hartford and back on the Interstate system things did get pretty much back to normal. Then I got onto I-84 which pointed me toward Boston and New England. After a quick stop for lunch at a rest area almost on the Massachusetts border I continued on the route that took me through Worcester, Lowell, and Lawrence MA and then up to Portsmouth, NH where I got onto smaller local highways for the picturesque drive to North Conway.
Up to this point the weather was very warm for mid January. It had been about 56 degrees when I stopped for lunch and it was still in the high 40s when I pulled into North Conway at around 3:30 in the afternoon.
I checked into the Kearsarge Inn a block off the main road in North Conway and contacted Rob to let him know I had arrived. Before I had a chance to get my stuff out of the car and into my room he was there. We hadn't seen each other since my trip to Seneca Rocks in early August and his surprise visit to Asheville the following week so it was a really welcome reunion. He helped me get all my crap out of the car and into my commodious room at the Inn and then I gave him the various gifts I had brought from home. I think the one he appreciated the most was a 12-pack of Highland Brewery's Cold Mountain Winter Ale. This stuff is available in Asheville very briefly each winter and when I saw it at Earthfare I snagged a case knowing how much Rob loves the stuff. Later I thought maybe I would go back and get some for myself even though I am not much of a beer drinker by a few days had passed and it was gone.
We hung out together for a few hours until Carolyn met up with us having finished her Wilderness First Responder recertification course that afternoon. Then we climbed into my newly emptied car and drove to the White Mountain Cider Company for Burger Night (every Monday apparently). We had a fun and yummy dinner after which we headed back to the Inn to sit around the gas fireplace and chat before Rob and Carolyn went to his apartment two blocks away for their last night and I crashed with the Sunday New York Times magazine and fell asleep.
In the morning I went over to Rob's with my hiking gear including my new boots rated for 40 degrees below zero and my waterproof outer layer in anticipation of deep snow. We said goodbye to Carolyn and Rob and I headed off to our first hike of the trip. It was warm but misty and occasionally drizzly so Rob had decided on a loop hike in an area of the White Mountains just west of Randolph. Since it was a bit of a drive and we had to go through Pinkham Notch where he had worked several times, we stopped there so he could show me his old stomping grounds and then went onto the town of Gorham for an early lunch before commencing our hike.
The hike was beautiful. I am not sure what the rise was and it probably was only about 3 miles in length but between the snow still on the trails, the rise, and the 4 lovely waterfalls all of which were partially frozen over and almost painfully beautiful, it took us about 2-1/2 hours of hiking to complete the route. As usual I was over-dressed and was wet but entirely from perspiration rather than precipitation. Rob, of course, probably still had a pulse of about 30 bpm because for him this hike was literally a walk in the woods.
These photos cannot really begin to capture how pretty this hike was but believe me I felt great and had no qualms about eating well that night.
After dinner was over comparatively early, Rob wanted to go to the wine section of a local supermarket to get a little input on some reasonably priced but dependable wines he and Carolyn could try when they are dining in so we spent some time going down the aisle and cherry picking the selection. After that though, the night was still young so we walked to the adjacent movie theater to see if there was anything worth seeing and settled, with little thought, on The Wolf of Wall Street, which had just barely started.
I will not belabor my reaction to this film. At three hours in length, much of which was spent in way-too-long scenes of Leonardo DiCaprio exhorting his fellow criminals into greater efforts and scamming their clients, I left wondering why Scorcese made this movie. Although it had a few amusing moments, it would have been far better at about an hour and 40 minutes in length and frankly, in my opinion, would have been best not made at all. I wasn't put off by the constant use of the all-purpose part of speech "fuck". I am inured to that and most other words. My problem was that it was, irrespective of its basis in fact, a story that didn't merit being told either for entertainment value or a moral lesson. It was vivid and long but essentially boring and painful to watch. Films where you have utterly no sympathy of any of the characters often are just too hard to stomach.
When, at last, it ended, all either of us wanted to do was crawl into bed in a fetal position and try to regain some sense of a reason to continue living. Getting up the following morning to bright sunshine, blue skies and only moderately cold weather accomplished that.
The Wednesday morning was, in fact, so gorgeous that Rob developed a plan to really use the great weather to full advantage. We got an early start at the coffee shop, Frontside Grind, where we have started the previous day. I got a big coffee and a bagel so I would have some food in me to get going on and Rob went for an even more substantial meal. Then we hit the road for The Highland Center run by AMC in the area of Crawford Notch. In the parking lot I was instructed in the installation of micro-spikes on my boots and we quickly set off on the easy approach to the trailhead for Mt Willard. The hike to the summit seems to be a rise of somewhere in the 1,000-1,200 foot range and is a very pleasant trail through stands of mostly conifers. There was some snow on the ground but actually surprisingly little for mid-January in the Whites. Still, I was glad to have both the micro-spikes on my boots, and my good old trusty ski poles which Rob had wisely advised me to bring.
We reached the summit in about an hour or so and paused at the spectacular open view on top.
I was quite taken by the beauty of this spot and convinced Rob, who has the opposite feeling about pictures of us on these hikes, to set up and take photos of us in this amazing spot.
The round trip took about an hour and a half including the time at the top so we were just in time to head into the lodge building to get a rather hearty lunch of soup and sandwich so there was fuel for the afternoon's activities, about which I knew little. Rob, however, knew what we would be up to.
The stop was brief although we did take in a wonderful photography exhibit in one of the AMC buildings before jumping back in the car and heading a bit farther Northwest to Zealand.
Once there, we togged up for the second ascent of the day. This time the plan was to go to the summit of at least one, if not both, of the Sugarloaf peaks. The approach was probably about a mile and a half or so but it is very easy hiking up a very gently sloping closed road so I was lulled into thinking this would be a cakewalk. Once you get to the trail up to the summits though it does become a regular narrow trail through forest with lots of roots to pay attention to and the occasional spot where one could slip if not careful. As a rule I would try to follow Rob's foot placement but sometimes he was far enough ahead of me that I had no idea how he had gone so I did make a few mistakes but didn't actually end up on my ass until the descent.
The trail also was steeper than I had expected. From the distance at which I first saw these peaks they didn't look very high. At a point of progress up the trail though where I would have thought we must have been 2/3 of the way to the top we stopped for me to rest for a couple seconds and Rob pointed up to what suddenly looked like a really big peak up to our left and asked if I was ready to go up there. Suddenly this second summit started to feel daunting.
In fairness I have to say that he offered to alter the plan and take the Trestle Trail which would have involved a descent from where we were and a lot less climbing but I don't like giving up on things I start, so I agreed to forge on. The trail did get a tad steeper but the distance up to the saddle between the two peaks really wasn't that bad. Once we made that height I figured the last couple hundred feet to the peak would be easy. We continued to the North Summit where once again I took in the view and took pictures. This time Mount Washington, the legendary tallest peak in New Hampshire with what is purported to be the worst weather in the US was framed like a post card view.
We tried a few "selfies" in this location but with the brightness of the day and the limits of an iPhone's abilities to perform in cold temperatures, they weren't that great so I will neither bore you with more pictures of us in beautiful locations nor embarrass Rob.
After the appropriate time at the top to really take in the staggering beauty of the spot, we headed back down to the saddle. At that point I was starting to show my age and fatigue and had decided that the South Sugarloaf probably wasn't in my future that afternoon so I suggested that since Rob wants to "Redline" all of these routes, he should go ahead and scoot up the second summit and back while I waited at the saddle. That way he would be able to carve another notch on his belt and I wouldn't have to ascend another even small peak that day.
This is where I have to say, I was reminded of how seriously Rob takes wilderness hiking with clients and, in my case, old friends. He refused to leave me alone for even the 30-40 minutes it would have taken him. The credo of these people who guide and instruct others in enjoying the wilderness is to do nothing that risks the health or welfare of the person they are guiding, and that day, leaving me alone for 40 minutes was apparently going to cross that line.
So, down we climbed. Part way down I did slip and fall flat on my ass but no real damage was done. We made it back to the car with the sun still up but probably a bit after 4:00 PM and I was mightily tired. It is odd for me, but at that moment the idea of sitting in a bar, preferably with a fireplace, and drinking a beer was really appealing and since Rob is a big beer fan, I thought it was a no-brainer but because his North Carolina drivers license no longer really has a recognizable photo on it and since he didn't hike with his passport, I would have been drinking alone, so that plan evaporated and we headed back to North Conway.
That night I took advantage of my deep tub and soaked my achy legs in hot water for a good half hour before getting dressed for my last dinner in New Hampshire. We ate well, went back to my room where Rob put together a series of YouTube videos for me to listen too from musicians he thought I would like (and he was right in several cases). It was a far more pleasant way to finish the night that suffering through the movie we had endured the night before. . . like having a private concert.
In the morning I picked him up to go have a fairly big breakfast. I was driving to Boston and didn't really know if lunch was going to be an option, and he had a big day in the outdoors planned. After that we headed back to Frontside Grind where he was going to check his email. We said our goodbyes and I headed out of town toward Boston.
The drive to Boston from North Conway is an easy one and the roads were in good shape due to the lack of anything remotely resembling New Hampshire winter weather. Things went great along the way and it appeared that I would make the drive in less than three hours until I was somewhere near the Massachusetts border. All of a sudden there was a bottleneck of epic proportions. It seems that a bridge that normally has three lanes of traffic heading into I-95 had workers on it so two of its lanes were closed. Worse still, there were two lanes of solid traffic on the highway I was approaching on and another two coming in from the right from some other source. You get the picture. 4 lands suddenly had to turn into one. This took about an extra half hour or so to get past but after that it really wasn't a bad drive. Approaching central Boston from the North is a bit different from what I am accustomed to when driving into major cities. The route is a tad convoluted and at times is surface streets that function almost like freeways. Then there is the rather complex series of over/underpasses, bridges, spinny freeway exits and finally Storrow Drive, which curves and requires almost constant lane changes to get to Stuart Street, the location of the Revere Hotel.
I did make it without a whole lot of pain and pulled into the hotel vehicular entry a bit after 2:00 in the afternoon. After a brief and somewhat shocking exchange with the valet parker about my choices for parking ($46/night for valet, or $40 for self park in the same location) I opted to self park and he directed me to the ramp and floor level to drive to. I ended up on the second floor of a very large garage with a desirable end slot, thus reducing the risk of door dings from adjacent cars. From there I grabbed my day pack and the bag with my credit cards and other necessities and headed down to the lobby of the hotel (which requires a slightly indirect route through the garage). Check-in was fairly uneventful although I was told that I should have dropped off my luggage before going up to the parking garage (a detail the valet had neglected to mention). Consequently the plan was for me to go up to my room, make sure it was OK and drop the items I had with me, and then call to have a bellman meet me in the garage to help with the crap I needed for my two days in Boston.
This too didn't exactly go as planned but by 3:00 ish I was finally ensconced in a pleasant modern, very well priced room at the Revere Hotel about a block from Boston Common in the heart of the city.
Boston is a city I haven't visited in decades but have always loved. One of the principal reasons for this stop was to be able to spend time at the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum which I had seen 40 years earlier before the lavish addition and restoration work that was finished about two years ago. Since my plan was to not be rushed in enjoying the place I didn't want to race over there for just an hour or two on my first afternoon, so I rested a bit and snacked on some of the food that was still in my ice chest from earlier in the trip. I was not planning on going to dinner until sometime after 7:00 and while I had eaten a substantial breakfast, I did have some hunger pangs.
I had arranged to have a brief get-together with a friend of a friend over drinks or coffee or something but had no plans for the night so I spent the rest of my afternoon on Yelp and TripAdvisor (as well as chatting with the concierge) about great places to eat that were within walking distance.
My old favorite Boston restaurant from ages ago was Legal Seafood and most reviews as well as the opinion of the concierge indicated that while it is no longer in a single rather funky small location, the seafood is still great. With a large room right across Stuart Street from the Revere it wasn't hard to decide where I was chowing down that evening.
I won't waste anyone's time with a review. . .I already did that on TripAdvisor, but suffice it to say, it is still great. Try the Cioppino if you get a chance. You will be neither hungry or disappointed when you are finished.
Friday in Boston consisted of lazing around the hotel until about 10:30 in the morning and then setting off on the T to the Gardner. You aren't allowed to take pictures inside and sadly because of my eagerness to get in and the cold temperature, I didn't shoot the outside of the building. Briefly though I will tell you that this place is very special. The old building is a grand 4-story affair built more than a century ago to replicate the look of a Venetian palace and it succeeds. When I last saw it that was all there was and it was in pretty run down condition.
Now a large modern wing has been added with administration offices, educational facilities and meeting rooms, a cafe, bookstore and some nice lounging space where you can just relax and peruse books and exhibits that are germane to the museum.
The collection looks way better in the restored and better lit Palace than I remember it from before. If you find yourself in Boston, do not miss out on a trip to the Gardner.
The rest of the afternoon was spent around Harvard. I wanted to see the addition that hasn't opened yet at the Fogg Museum and to revisit Carpenter Center (the only building in the US designed by Le Corbusier) and was supposed to meet with a woman at the Harvard Graduate School of Design about their M-Arch program. Because of the work I do for Cornell admissions I was hoping to get better informed about the differences between Harvard's program and ours. I have found over the years that most of the applicants I interview are applying on about 6 other programs and I like to know as much about them as I can so I can speak intelligently about the differences. Unfortunately there was some mix up and my contact was out of town so the conversation will have to wait for another time.
Dinner that night was at a sensational modern Italian place facing the Common called Teatro. It was busy, loud, visually appealing, had great food, and was a fun place to finish up a short but pleasant visit to Boston. I am definitely not waiting decades again to go back. It is a really great city with so much to see and do, it deserves more attention than I could give it in a day and a half.
At this point, sadly, the trip took a turn for the worse. There is a virus going around the country, seemingly everywhere, and my last night in Boston I was aware of the beginnings of a sore throat and runny nose, that I was hoping would just be a quick little cold and would go away. It has been about two weeks now and I still have it so my wish was not granted.
I drove to New York the next day with the predictable traffic/road construction delays and finally arrived at my old friend Charles Klein's apartment on Central Park West at about 3:30 in the afternoon. By then, frankly, I was feeling pretty lousy so we decided to keep things simple and local for dinner. We ended up having drinks at the Leopard, a new place in the location of the old Cafe Des Artistes right across the street from Charles' building. We met a friend of his there and then made our way a few blocks downtown to an Indian restaurant they like where we bumped into another friend of his. The four of us ended up having a somewhat disappointing meal (I am a big fan of Indian food and this place just wasn't up to the standards to which i am accustomed) which was not helped by my progressively worse cold.
The remainder of my time in New York, sadly, wasn't much because of how sick I was. This is a city I have loved since the first time I was there in the summer of 1964 and I have always enjoyed myself there, but I barely left Charles' apartment. We joined a mutual old friend of ours from college days for a lunch on Sunday afternoon but other than that I spent most of the time hanging around the apartment blowing my nose and coughing. Dinners ended up coming from Whole Foods a few blocks away so my big adventure each day was a walk 8 blocks to buy something to eat (soup seemed to make sense) and then back to the apartment. I watched some TV and Charles and I got to sit around and talk about bunches of things, but I simply had nothing in me that would get me out to museums or shows.
If you look out of the kitchen window from the apartment's upper floor, this is what you see across the street. This is one of the things I love about some of these old New York apartment buildings, in particular those on the Upper West Side. There is so much wonderful architectural detail that even with a building right across the street you have something wonderful to look at.
Then, to make things almost worse, on Tuesday, when I was starting to feel very slight improvement, I had scheduled the drive to Washington. The plan was to leave at about 10:00 in the morning for what Google Maps estimated as a 3 and a half hour drive and arrive at my cousin Ricki's place in NW Washington early to mid-afternoon. I had a dinner schedule that night at 6:30 so it seemed to be a plan with lots of flex built in.
I did leave, as planned, at almost exactly 10:00 in the morning. From Charles' building at 67th and CPW the drive to the Lincoln Tunnel entrance should be about 10 minutes or so. There was light snow falling so people were driving more slowly than normal on 9th Avenue heading downtown and things were quite slow. Then of course on 39th street, where I had to make my way two blocks across town to reach the entry ramp to the tunnel, there was a huge DHL truck that was blocking the street while trying over and over to line up with a loading dock in a building he had to back into. For 20 minutes he blocked traffic trying to get into the space, which in turn created a pure gridlock for several blocks in every direction. People were getting out of cabs and walking out of frustration. It was really bad and there was no way to get out of the mess. Ultimately, the trip to the tunnel, which should have taken the 10 minutes, took 90.
Once in, traffic moved at about 35 MPH which I thought was decent and figured once I was on the NJ Turnpike things would get back to normal. I will not make you go through the turn by turn nightmare that this drive turned into but it did take 8 hours and 15 minutes to make the 3-1/2 hour drive. By the time I reached Washington I was already almost late for the scheduled dinner (we bumped it out an hour), tired, sick and frustrated. My poor cousin was equally miserable recovering from a surgical procedure a week earlier so for the hour that I hung out with her we were quite the pair.
I did have a lovely evening with my old friends Steven Mansbach and Julia Frane (Julia cooked. . .yum yum). That night, armed with cough medicine, cold pills and several boxes of kleenex, I slept like a baby.
The days in Washington essentially consisted of going from meal to meal, cousin to cousin, and friend to friend. On Wednesday night there was a big dinner at my cousin Jim's house which was prepared mostly by his wife Peggy. It was also great. At the end of a trip where most meals have been in restaurants, it can really be a treat to sit down to home cooked food in someone's dining room.
My last day included about a two hour coffee with one of my oldest friends, Sandy Rothberg who lives in Mason's Neck Virginia. We have known each other for probably more than 60 years and I still enjoy his company and his sense of humor.
Last Friday, I departed Washington for home. The drive back was truly uneventful. The weather while still cold, was crystal clear. Once out of Washington on I-66 and eventually I-81 and I-26 back to Asheville, there was virtually no traffic. I was home 7 hours and 15 minutes after leaving Ricki's apartment and that included one stop for fuel and one for lunch. Thank God.
So after 5 days back I am finishing up the planning for my departure on Saturday for Puerto Rico where I will meet up with my parents for a week. The last three days will also include my youngest sister and her husband, and on my last day I will even overlap with my sister Jan, so aside from my brother, I will see my whole immediate family in a warm sunny place in February. It sounds good to me.
No news on the dog search yet but I am hopeful I will hear something soon. When I do it will be announced on these pages. Abner will never be equalled or replaced but I am ready for another companion.
Wednesday, January 08, 2014
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