It is October 10th and Felix and I have been home
a little less than two weeks. I had
ambitions of blogging while on the road, but that truly was an absurd notion,
so this will be my attempt at the summer wrap up.
Since it was July when I last reported on our summer out
West, needless to say there have been a number of things that have come to
pass. Shortly after I last brought you
up to speed my friend Brenda arrived from Asheville for a week visit. Brenda had never been to California in spite
of being a world traveler, so she left things almost entirely up to me in terms
of setting an agenda for our time together.
We did do some of the standard stuff in and around
Sacramento and hiked with Felix a few of the mornings before we headed out for
other activities but the major events included a day trip to San Francisco,
capped off by a stroll through Presidio Heights and dinner at Sociale, one of
my favorite San Francisco dining spot.
It is hard to visit a city like SF with someone who has never been there
and figure out what to do in a single day.
We did drive across the Golden Gate for a bayside lunch in Sausalito and
then spent a couple hours at the DeYoung and around Golden Gate Park. We drove along the beaches a bit and through
parts of the city, including pretty much the entire length of California Street
all the way down to the Financial District and then back out along the Bay and
through the Marina. I think Brenda got a
decent first taste of what San Francisco looks and feels like.
One day we drove to Sonoma to have a really great lunch al
fresco at Ken and Dede Goddard’s house and got to see Ann and Bowers’ new house
under construction. Felix got to go on
this trip and spent much of a languid afternoon in the back yard with Ken while
Brenda, Dede, Ann, Bowers and I all took in downtown Sonoma.
I also felt like a quick trip to Lake Tahoe was a necessity
since it is one of the truly unique locations in California so we drove up
highway 50 to the South Shore, stopped for a short hike near Emerald Bay,
worked our way up to Tahoe City and Truckee and then headed back down to
Sacramento on I-80. Tahoe in summer is
one of the great joys of Northern California so Felix and I had made plans for
a longer visit later in the summer.
One night Anne and Rex Jackson came out to Carmichael for
dinner and bridge. Since Brenda and I
met playing bridge, and since this would be my only opportunity all summer to
keep any kind of skill up, it became a high priority. At that point construction on John’s house
hadn’t begun so we were able to play in his game room. How appropriate.
After Brenda’s visit things got quieter for a while. Aside from Ingrid and Larry whose day-trip
turned into a quick overnight, I had no other visitors staying with me in
Carmichael. I did manage to catch up
with a number of old friends, usually over dinner at John’s guesthouse although
occasionally dining out. In some
respects this was exactly what I had hoped to be able to do during the
summer. I wanted to settle into
something of a routine but get to see lots of old friends without it feeling
rushed. There were a few dinners that
were deliberate reunions, and those were fun and quite special. There were also the inevitable discoveries
that some people were in ill health or had suffered serious incidents and
illnesses in recent years. I have come
to realize as I work my way into my late 60s that this will be more and more
common. Still, these events reminded me
how long I have been gone from California and how, in many ways, I am quite
detached from the people who populated my existence for the 33 years I was
there.
Felix and I did a weekend trip to see my very old friend
Risa and husband Joey at their weekend place in Yountville. This was fun but a bit of a shock. I don’t think I had set foot in Yountville
since a disastrous lunch at the over-priced, pretentious and hideously
overrated French Laundry (of Thomas Keller fame) at least 15-20 years ago. At that time Yountville was a quiet village
one passed through when driving between Napa, St Helena, and Calistoga. Now it seems to have turned into a total
Trendopolis with toney restaurants, shops and galleries everywhere. I find it somewhat sad when an unspoiled
place like Yountville becomes so precious.
I sometimes have fears of that happening to Asheville although I kind of
doubt it. There is a core weird funky
quality to Asheville that I think prevents preciousness from coexisting here.
Anyway, aside from 100+ degree temperatures, the weekend was
quite fun. Walking at night was pleasant
and when I took Felix out early on Sunday morning there were dozens of hot air
balloons ascending just a few blocks from Risa and Joey’s condo. Quite the visual spectacle first thing in the
morning I must say.
In August we spent a week at Lake Tahoe courtesy of Larry
and Mary Kaye Young letting us use their house at Tahoe Keys. This, as it turned out, was a great base of
operations at the lake. With short
drives to numerous trailheads we got to do a lot of good hiking. I had done the Angora Lakes trail with Abner
7 years ago but hadn’t been back since so we did that one again. Then we did a loop to Fallen Leaf Lake, which
for those who haven’t seen it is one of the larger lakes that dot the mountains
west of Lake Tahoe. Fallen Leaf is only
a couple miles west of Tahoe off Highway 89 and is probably only about 200 feet
above Tahoe in elevation so the hike is quite easy.
Slightly more challenging but I think far more rewarding is
the hike to Lake Genevieve in Desolation Wilderness starting on the Meeks Bay
trailhead. This hike is purported to be
an 11 mile round trip with about a 1,200 foot vertical rise. Since the first mile or so of the hike is
almost dead flat, the vertical component is still spread out over 4-1/2 miles
and consequently never feels like a very difficult climb. The terrain varies between alpine forest,
exposed granite outcroppings, streams and finally beautiful, serene Lake Genevieve. There are little glimpses of Tahoe from the
trail but mostly it is an intimate exploration of the woefully inappropriately
named Desolation Wilderness area. It is
so lush in so many places one has to wonder who decided to name it
Desolation. The round trip took about 4
hours at a fairly leisurely pace with the requisite stops for sniffing and
peeing by the 4-legged hiker.
The final road trip prior to heading back east was my trip
to Fort Bragg for Winesong and the accompanying annual reunion of the same
group of old friends who have attended this fundraising event for more than two
decades. We were a slightly smaller
group this year but it still felt like the weekend was an orgy of
consumption. Besides eating and drinking
all day at the event itself, Friday night traditionally involves dinner at Rick
and Louise’s house for everyone who is there in time, and then the Saturday
night abalone feed that we all look forward to all year.
The weekend was fun and ended, as usual with coffee and
farewells at Rick and Louise’s. I headed
back to Sacramento along Highway 20, which passes long the North side of Clear
Lake. Considering that one of the worst
fires in the entire season in California had started less than 24 hours before,
this was a very strange experience. Normally
when you drive this route you can see the mountains on the other side of the
lake and the drive is actually quite scenic.
The smoke was so thick from the fire that you could only see a couple
hundred feet out into the lake. You
could smell it even in a closed car with air recirculating. There were dozens of fire trucks on the road
going the opposite direction and I decided not to stop for fuel until I had
made it past all the bad air and into the Sacramento Valley.
It is actually quite heartbreaking to see what has happened
along this route in the last year. So
many fires have hit Lake County near the lake itself that you drive past huge
areas of burned out trees. Those that
aren’t burned are mostly dead from drought and other ravages. The entire state is reeling from the serious
drought that has gone on for about 5 years now and you see dead trees
everywhere. My memory of my 33 years in
California doesn’t include the way it looks now and this is sad. I can’t imagine anyone still living there who
doesn’t consider climate change to be a very serious issue now. . .not
something that may become a problem in the future, or most inexplicably,
something that doesn’t even exist.
The final week out West consisted mostly of saying goodbye
to people, doing laundry, packing clothes to be sent ahead, and in general
buttoning things up after 4 months. I
had finalized the route to Indiana the week before Winesong and on the 22nd
of September, left Carmichael as planned around 9:00 in the morning.
The first day heading east was a fun one. I drove up I-80 through the Sierras and into
Nevada. Shortly after passing Reno there
is a turnoff for Fallon and the connection to US Highway 50. I had never driven all the way across Nevada
on 50, a route called “the loneliest road in America”. This title is somewhat deserved as there are
very few towns or settlements along the road.
Nonetheless, it is by far the more scenic route across this largely
uninhabited State. 80 goes through
Nevada on a far more Northerly route past scenery that lacks the drama of the
50 crossing, and in spite of being mostly 2-lane road, the lack of trucks and
other cars, and the very long straight stretches affording limitless visibility
allow you to cross this desert without anything delaying your pace. Even if you do come upon a large truck going
slower than you want, passing is so easy it never was an issue.
We went as far as Delta, Utah the first day. Delta is not a town where one would feel
compelled to stop but I did due to the availability of a dog friendly
reasonably priced hotel. We did a quick
overnight stop and got up the next morning for the long and scenic drive to
Denver. 50 continues southeast from
Delta to a junction with I-15 which you take Northbound for a few miles before
jumping back onto 50 again. The last 30
miles of this lovely route are almost as unencumbered as the stretch through
Nevada had been, after which one picks up I-70 East. This is a very interesting and scenic route
through most of Utah. You are South of
all the major cities and North of the big national parks driving through widely
varied and beautiful terrain. Sometimes
you find yourself surrounded by red rock canyons and mesas with almost mystical
spires of stone eroded by millennia of water and wind into unworldly
shapes. Then, only a few miles on, you
will encounter almost white limestone formations. I think this route would be a geologist’s
paradise. It would be hard to drive it
without stopping every few miles to take in the next natural wonder.
Unfortunately, since one of my headlights failed as I was
pulling into the hotel in Delta the night before, and since I had determined
that the only VW dealership where I could get it fixed was in Littleton, CO, I
was on a mission to get to Denver before their service department closed, so
extra stops, even to take in great beauty were not a possibility. As it turned out, with the amount of road
construction on I-70 I was not able to make Denver in time to get the repair
done before closing anyway so it’s a pity I hadn’t stopped along the way. Lesson learned.
My nephew Ben and his wife Elizabeth bought a house in
Littleton in early summer so Felix and I overnighted with them. As it turned out they were tied up that
evening and had to leave the following morning fairly early since they had a
flight to Cincinnati from which they would drive to Fort Wayne for the same
party I was headed to by car. Needless
to say our visit was brief.
I had an appointment to have the headlight fixed in the morning
that took longer than I thought it would but Felix and I eventually hit the
road around 10:30 in the morning. What I
hadn’t remembered is how mind-numbing the drive across Eastern Colorado, all of
Kansas, and part of Missouri can be. It
seems that no matter which East/West route you take, there is a stretch through
the middle of the country that will kill any interest you have in road
trips. I have crossed this stretch on
I-20, I-40, I-70, I-80 and I-90 and to one degree or another it is lethal on
every one of them. I had somewhat
expected this for the Kansas section but had forgotten that the Eastern 200
miles or so of Colorado is just as flat and featureless as most of Kansas. Speed limits are usually 75 in these areas
and I took advantage of the opportunity to get through it all as fast as I
could. We made it to Columbia, MO that
night although considerably later than I would have liked. The next morning we did the drive to St.
Louis with little in the way of delay but once we crossed the Mississippi River
and entered Illinois it was nothing but delays.
I-70 all the way across Illinois and for about the first 15-20 miles of
Indiana is in varying degrees of construction.
We would hit a wall of traffic that would slow to 30 and then stop and
go for long periods of time. Eventually
we would get past the blockage, traffic would speed up, and then in another 6
miles the exact same thing would happen.
This is true all the way across Illinois. I don’t know how long these road improvements
will be underway but there is no way I would opt for that route until they are
finished. It was torture.
Eventually we made it to Fort Wayne in the early
evening. I got us checked into the
hotel, changed into slightly more acceptable clothing and headed over to my
parents’ house for dinner with the various members of the family who had
already arrived.
Saturday was the day of the party for my mother’s 90th
and my father’s 95th birthdays.
We had arranged for a bouncy house in the front yard, a couple tents
with table and chairs for dinner, and some live entertainment as well as a
Donald Trump piƱata for my liberal parents to take a swing at. Guests were invited to arrive around 4:00
with dinner sometime after 6:00. During
the day Jan, Lisa, Dave and I worked at getting things set up. Stringing lights all over the tents was my
task, which mindless though it was, was kind of fun. Lisa decorated the tables really nicely with
flowers and framed pictures of our parents in various stages of their 70 years
together and Dave and I made an attempt to hide the mess in the garage with
sheets hanging from ceiling joists so the musicians had a somewhat acceptable
space in which to sit and play.
All in all the party came off well I think. The little kids used the bouncy house. .
.never did convince either of my parents to try it out. Dad and Mom both took swings at Trump and
then we started with the youngest of the kids with everyone taking a swing at
it until my niece Arlee did some real damage and then her brother Cort
eventually broke him open.
People stuck around until 9:30 or so and then we all
trundled off to our various housing locales for the night. Most reassembled for a catered brunch my
mother had arranged for Sunday morning and then all but my brother and I
started peeling off for various homes.
On Monday morning Felix and I got a reasonably early start
since we were facing the 9-hour drive back to Asheville but it really went
without a hitch or delay. We had good
weather the whole way back and unlike most of my experiences with this route,
we encountered no problems in Southern Kentucky or Northern Tennessee. We made it home in time to have a quick visit
with Josh and Lanny who had been in the house all summer and then headed off to
the vet so some sores Felix had developed on the trip home could be evaluated.
That night, September 28th, I slept in my own bed
for the first time since May 14th and it felt good.
In thinking about the summer I have drawn a number of
conclusions. After 11 years away, I am
no longer, in any way, a Sacramentan.
Sacramento has changed a lot in that time. Among other things the population has
increased by something in the neighborhood of 600,000 people and you can see it
everywhere. Traffic is horrible almost
all day on the freeways. There is a lot
of construction going on but almost none of it to improve infrastructure to
handle this huge increase in population.
In short, Sacramento is no longer as easy or comfortable to live in as
it was when I was living there.
Another observation is that my relationships with some of
the people there could start up as if no time had passed at all, and others
were somewhat awkward. Some friends
seemed to be almost unchanged and others, particularly those whose health has
taken some hits, are very different.
Consequently the dozens of interactions were widely varied from
gratifying to sad, to outright squirm-worthy.
Some people seemed virtually ageless and others seemed to have aged
shockingly, which of course made me think that some of them probably had the
exact same reaction upon seeing me.
It was really nice to be able to see so many people and
places that I remember fondly, and to spread out those visits over the whole
summer, but in the end 4-1/2 months is a long time to be away from home, even
when you have the comfort of a friend’s guest house all to yourself. Returning to Asheville and spending the last
few weeks slowly getting back into my “normal” life has served as a reminder of
why I love living here. I am lucky
enough to be in a very beautiful place that affords me many comforts and
enjoyable experiences but is easy to live in and to get around. After almost 11 years here I have a circle of
friends and acquaintances who differ greatly from those in California, if for
no other reason, because they met me at a completely different time of my life,
but these relationships are still rewarding and give me comfort in the place
Felix and I call home. We are both glad
to be back.